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What Type of Couple Are You?
1. How do you and your partner start your morning?
By doing whatever the other person wants.
By arguing about who's going to make coffee.
By kissing and then checking in to see how the other person feels and has planned.
With a conversation about how one of you pulls the comforter too much and then that person apologizes to end the argument.
We get out of bed silently and go our separate ways.
We don't start the morning together.
2. Describe your typical date night.
We go to whatever restaurant sounds great and then see whatever movie one of us suggests.
We get drunk in a bar, argue a little, have makeup sex, and go to bed.
We plan fun adventures for each other to new attractions or restaurants around town.
One of us decides what they want to do, and then we do that, no matter how the other person feels.
We argue about what to do and then end up not doing anything.
We don't go on any dates.
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3. Describe a normal argument in your couple.
One of us says they're unhappy, and the other quickly apologizes and takes the blame.
We disagree about something, yell about it, laugh, and make up.
One of us brings up something we're unhappy about, and the other listens and validates their partner's feelings while expressing their own view; we agree and hug.
One of us points out how the other did something wrong. There's some berating and apologies later.
We fight like cats and dogs and end up sleeping in separate rooms.
We don't even fight about anything anymore, it's not worth the energy.
4. What celebrity couple is most like you and your partner?
Blake and Ryan
Ozzy and Sharon
Barack and Michelle
Johnny and Amber
Angelina and Brad
Gisele and Tom
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5. What movie or TV show do you most relate to in terms of your relationship?
Romeo and Juliet
The Notebook
Friday Night Lights
I, Tonya
Hope Springs
Kramer vs. Kramer
6. What happens if your partner forgets your anniversary?
That's totally okay, I still give them a present.
I scream at them, and they scream at me for yelling, and then they come back with flowers.
My partner doesn't forget our anniversary.
I don't say anything and hide my present so I don't point out their mistake.
We both purposely forget our anniversaries.
We haven't celebrated an anniversary in years.
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7. How do you celebrate Valentine's Day?
By asking what the other person wants to do.
We argue over where to go to dinner until we remember we have a coupon for a great local place.
We have long planned out a date, including a meal, a walk in the park, and a carriage ride.
We'll go to see a movie one partner wants to see and then eat at the place they want.
We'll try to watch a movie but it'll end up in a fight.
We don't celebrate Valentine's Day.
8. What's your relationship like with your in-laws?
Totally great!
I can only spend a limited time with them because they drive me nuts.
It can be taxing, but they're family, so we make efforts to build relationships.
We only spend time with one partner's family, and don't have time for the other's.
We avoid our in-laws at all costs, except when we can't — like over the holidays.
I don't have a relationship with my in-laws.
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9. Choose one word your friends would use to describe your relationship.
Stepford-y
Passionate
Healthy
Abusive
Disconnected
Over
10. What's your sleeping arrangement?
We sleep in a full bed under a quilt and try our best not to pull it off each other.
If we've had a fight, one of us is on the sofa.
We have a lovely bedroom with the right arrangement of pillows.
If we fight, one of us has to sleep on the floor.
We have separate rooms.
We don't sleep in the same house.
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11. Have you ever been in couples counseling?
No, we definitely don't need it!
Yes, but we quit because they kept interrupting our debates.
Yes, it's part of maintaining our healthy dynamic.
One of us thinks we don't need a counselor interfering in our business.
We need to be.
Yes, as a last ditch effort.
12. Describe your typical weeknight after work.
Doing whatever the other person wants.
Fighting about what show or movie to stream.
We cook dinner together and catch each other up on our days.
One partner goes out clubbing, and the other waits at home for them to come home.
We do our own thing.
Alone.
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13. When you go out to eat, who orders?
We have a hard time ordering because we're indecisive.
We order for ourselves by talking over each other at the same time.
One partner orders for themselves and then the other partner places their order.
One partner always orders for both people.
If we go out to eat, we place our own orders and we don't share.
We don't go out to eat.
14. What's a recent especially romantic experience you shared?
We went out for ice cream and shared a cone.
We got drunk at our favorite bar and had sex in the bathroom.
We revisited the spot of our first date and recreated the night — first kiss and all.
My partner took me to their friend's show, and I got to meet the band.
We had a conversation the other night.
The romance is dead.
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15. How did your partner last celebrate your birthday?
By asking me exactly what I wanted to do and then doing exactly that.
By arranging a surprise party and then nagging me to get dressed and out of the door quicker when I said I wanted to take things slowly.
They took me on a weekend getaway to a spa and resort and escape real life with me.
They took me to their favorite restaurant and made me try their favorite dish.
By calling my friends and getting them together to meet me at a bar.
They forgot.
16. How do you split chores in your shared home?
I do whatever they want me to do, and they do whatever I want them to do.
We argue about who has to clean the toilets, and eventually, one of us gives in.
We have a set schedule we stick to.
I do most of the chores and whatever else my partner instructs me to do.
We do whatever chores I feel need to be done.
We don't share a household.
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17. How well would you say you know your partner?
Extremely well, we're like the same person.
Too well — but that's why I love them!
I know my partner intimately because we have deep and vulnerable conversations.
I know the things that I am privy to.
I am not interested in knowing that much.
I am trying to forget what I know.
18. Have you and your partner ever broken up, and if so, how many times?
We would never break up because I'd die without them.
1,000 times but never for longer than a night.
We have had difficult fights but have always been able to work through them.
They've broken up with me several times but, luckily, always took me back.
We feel broken up even though we're not.
Not yet and it can't come soon enough.
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19. What's the most common fight you and your partner have?
We never fight because I have all the same opinions and wants as my partner.
It's hard to pick one fight, we have lots of them all the time.
We don't fight per se because we are good at talking through our disagreements and sharing our emotions.
They're often unhappy with the way I handle something or present myself.
We fight if they are clingy or intrude on my solitude when I want to be left alone.
Who's going to get the dog we adopted together.
20. What do you love most about your partner?
I love every single thing about them.
I love how much they drive me insane.
I love their heart, their ambition, and how they can be vulnerable with me.
I love that they chose me and haven't dumped me yet.
It's hard to remember what I loved about them.
I don't love anything about them.
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21. Your partner is two hours late coming home, and they haven't called or texted. What do you do?
I feel really anxious and check my phone repeatedly until they arrive, and then I feel better and let it go.
I scream at them for being an idiot when they get home and make them tell me where they were before we go to bed.
I'm engrossed in my work so I'll make a mental note to ask them what happened and how to avoid this situation again.
I'm terrified that they're not coming back and I wonder what I did wrong.
I didn't even notice they were late.
They can operate on whatever schedule they so choose.
22. How do you end your arguments?
We never fight so we don't have to end them.
We either fall, go to bed mad or open a bottle of wine and drink until we realize we're laughing instead of yelling.
We calmly talk through things and make sure both of us feel okay with how we left it before we go to sleep.
I apologize profusely until they agree to forgive me.
We walk away and pretend like they didn't happen.
By leaving permanently.
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23. Describe the vacations you take with your partner.
We go someplace we both like and know will be equally fun.
We love to go on adventurous journeys with dramatic landscapes and lots of opportunities for romance.
We choose places where we can discover new cultures together.
I go wherever they take me and I feel lucky I get to travel.
We haven't vacationed together in years because it wouldn't feel like a vacation.
We don't take vacations together.
24. Your partner forgot to do the dishes even though they had promised to. What do you do?
I do them instead so they get done, no big deal.
I scream at them until they go to the sink and finish them.
I ask them if they might have forgotten to do their chores and ask if they feel too stressed or busy.
It's never my partner's job to do the dishes.
I leave them there until they get so tired of their own filth they clean them.
I don't care if they do the dishes.
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25. Do you and your partner have the same taste in books?
Exactly the same.
We tend to argue about why the other person should like a book or not.
We get excited when we have the chance to expose each other to new genres and works.
I am happy to read whatever they think I should.
No.
I don't know what books they read and don't care.
26. What's your favorite shared interest with your partner?
We share too many wonderful interests.
Winning dumb debates and arguments.
Tennis - we're a doubles team.
I like watching their band play.
We hardly share any interests.
We don't.
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27. What do you call your partner when it's just you and them at home?
Babycakes
Butthead
Beloved
Babe
By their given first name
I don't call them.
28. How often do you and your partner have sex?
Whenever I feel like it or whenever they feel like it (or not, if one of us isn't in the mood).
Several times a week and passionately.
At least once a week, we're intentional about making it part of our lives.
Whenever they want to have sex with me.
We haven't had sex in ages.
I'm not sexually attracted to my partner.
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29. Describe what you think your relationship will be like if you end up growing old together.
Peaceful bliss in our shared apartment in an assisted living facility.
Grouchy old people yelling at each other but glad to have each other's company.
In our dream home that we retired to.
I'll always be there to take care of them.
Roommates who barely interact.
We're not growing old together.
30. What first attracted you to your partner?
Everything because they're perfect.
Their sassy attitude and their passion for life.
Their values and their drive.
They were so cool and sought after by so many people.
I can't even remember at this point.
I'm not sure, but I must have been drunk or deluded.
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